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Another accuser speaks out on DHS teacher matter
by Beau Simmons, Sports editor
Mar 10, 2010 | 9181 views | 16 16 comments | 56 56 recommendations | email to a friend | print
DURANT — A former Durant student and her grandmother spoke with the Democrat, saying that they had met with Superintendent Dr. Jason Simeroth to reveal the details of incidents four years ago involving the same teacher Tina Bennett alluded to during the Durant Board of Education’s March 1 meeting.

Simeroth said he could not confirm if he had spoken to one or more accusers concerning the matter.

“Like I’ve said before, we look into any and all complaints, regarding any student or any staff,” said Simeroth. “If someone else has something to say, we’ll listen to them.”

The granddaughter said she was in a driver’s education class in the summer of 2006 with the teacher. It was during this time that allegations were made involving inappropriate contact and other behavior that frightened her. She and her grandmother spoke to the Democrat on the condition of anonymity.

“It was my turn to drive. He had me drive to his house at Lake Durant. He put his hand on my upper thigh while I was driving,” said the granddaughter.

According to the grandmother, this was also the story her granddaughter told to the administrators at the meeting, “They (administrators at the meeting) asked her if she told him to stop, and she responded that she didn’t know what to tell him.”

The granddaughter said during the same trip he made what she considered another advance toward her.

“He asked us if we wanted to go swimming, and I said, ‘We don’t have swimsuits,’ and he said, ‘You don’t need any.’ He said, ‘next time bring your bathing suit.’”

It was after this incident the granddaughter said she told her mother who called and left messages with different offices but never got a call back.

“After that, I tried to stay away from him,” said the granddaughter. “When I did return to class, he basically tortured me. He took us driving on a dirt road. He slammed on the emergency brake and we did a 180.

“I went to take my final exam on the last day. He told me I was cheating and I was kicked out of Driver’s Ed. There was almost 50 or 60 kids in that class. That was humiliating. Everybody there, I went to school with for all those years. It hurt me emotionally. I wasn’t able to get my permit.”

The grandmother believed this was an act of retaliation.

“I think that he was told about (the incident being reported) and that he was trying to discredit her,” said the grandmother.

She said her granddaughter did not want to go back to the high school after that and finished her education in the alternative program.

“It changed her. She was changed because of those incidents,” said the grandmother. “She didn’t go back to school. She was fearful. She didn’t have respect for male teachers or anybody of authority.”

She said the granddaughter was asked during the meeting with administrators why she didn’t come forward years earlier and she said she “didn’t want to be considered a snitch.”

“I was scared,” said the granddaughter. “I’m only 15 when this happened and nobody did anything about it. I was just scared.”

She said the article that ran following the board meeting prompted them to come forward now because the granddaughter “didn’t want it to happen to any more girls.” The grandmother added that their motives weren’t related to trying to get involved in any kind of civil lawsuit.

“We don’t want it to happen to anyone else,” she said. “We haven’t thought anything about a civil suit. She doesn’t want her name on anything. She doesn’t want the attention. We’re not after money. We’re not those kinds of people. My daughter said the only thing she hoped (my granddaughter) could get back was the money she spent on the Driver’s Ed class, because my granddaughter worked to get the money to pay for it.”
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debbierackley
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March 11, 2010
CHILD PREDATORS ALSO LIE
forthekidsatdhs
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March 11, 2010
I will never put another child in the DHS school system again. Retaliation was also shown to my child by this "man" and his former assistant coach. After months of multiple problems in the gym, and getting no satisfaction from the "man" and his former assistant coach we decided to move our children to our hometown school. Out of courtesy, I called and talked with the "man" to tell him we were removing our children from DHS. He said he took it very personal and to not plan on my daughter playing anywhere else, meaning other schools. The same day he pulled my child into his athletic office and told her she was stupid for moving and to not come in the gym for practice because the gym was for Durant Lions and she wasn’t one of them. On the same day, just like Miss Bennett, she began to receive retaliation from the “man” and his former assistant coach and from other students. My daughter left school crying because this "man" was outright MEAN to her and said things that destroy a teens self esteem. My husband and I decided to meet with the former athletic director and the former school principal, (neither of them are still employed thank goodness) the "man" and former assistant coach were allowed into the meeting without us being notified that they would attend. They were trying to intimidate us by telling us that our kids would not be able to play sports at other schools and that they would be making a call to OSSAA because my daughter was being recruited. We were also told they would receive no credit on their transcript for that year. God as my witness, my children, who had been straight A students all of their lives began hating going to school because of the crap they received from the students and the "man" and his former assistant coach, we moved our children for the sake of their mental and apparently physical well being. We were told that if we decided to allow our kids to stay in Durant that we needed to change my daughters schedule from last hour athletics because they couldn't guarantee that she wouldn't get hurt down there, meaning the gym. HURT? That is a threat to my child’s safety but who do you go to? There was certainly no one in the Administration Office that would support us. We weren't a "good ole boy". The comment "Many teachers, friends and students have been manipulated by a group of few so called great men who have only selfish gain and have set up a system of friends of support to protect their actions behind the scenes" is very true and some of them are even part of higher sports organizations that is helping to decide whether or not kids are allowed hardships when they move to other schools. Who are you to mess with a child's future! But someone has to notice that it only happens to the "good" players. . . There have been several more girls in the past 3 years that this happened to and when is someone going to come out with the relationships between the former assistant coach and HER players? Someone! Please take action and clean this school system up!
reallyconfused
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March 11, 2010
personalityprofiler, you have hit the nail on the head!!!! Understanding that the attorney's are involved now but, another person has come forward, he is still walking the halls. Why has the administration or school board not put this alleged child predetor on administrative leave??
personalityprofiler
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March 11, 2010
Dr. Simeroth,

From the moment you took office the manipulation of your thoughts began. Your eating an apple that has worms in it. Take all the worms out before you take another bite. Someone withheld reports that you should have known about. These people are molding you for their evil desires. Don't fall for it. You don't need them and there are others that can replace them. Let them work at a school district that doesn't care about the kids. Not ours.

Consider that you have be given ill advice for personal gain. Someone in your midst knows of these reports and many more and decided that you did not need to know this information. What kind of person would withhold information about this type problem? This will not be the last report. The profile of this type of person has even fooled his own family. The scare tactics have the children frighten as well as adults. Many more will surface and this is only the beginning. The children won't come forward until they know they are safe. Really, I would flunk drivers ed if I a had mans hand up my skirt. Wouldn't you? Why did administration ask this girl "what did you do" She is a child and it does not matter what she did. This is a tactic used to turn around the blame on the victim and make them feel like they deserved it or did something and it was their fault. Come on-- Parents are not stupid. Teachers don't get excuses in this area!!!!! Do Kids get excuses for not doing homework. Teachers are old enough and should be responsible enough to give a good educational reason for why they make decisions.

Don't be a fool, they have been playing you all along. Many teachers, friends and students have been manipulated by a group of few so called great men who have only selfish gain and have set up a system of friends of support to protect their actions behind the scenes. Well, friends you have all been fooled for believing it. Does any of these persons have knowledge of psychology and use it? Well, if they use it on kids then they are using it on family and friends also.

If your not going to let your kids spend the night at this man's house then don't expose all the kids to him. Stand your ground.

Please don't bail on the kids. Please don't come up with an excuse to resign. Please be a soldier and draw your shield and sword and fire him and clean your entire house. Get rid of the grim, mud and dirt so you can have some clear vision. You can't make all happy, but your going to have a army of parents to support you. This is a long time coming. We need some new leadership. Don't fall for the tactics and manipulation within your own office. This town is not the old Durant, it is the new Durant. Your the only one that can change this school for the better of our kids. Parents will support you. To the public it is a closed case, expect for the fact many should be fired and not just one.

Drew Young is a outstanding honest guy with years of background out of Sherman? How could a great person be let go at the school. I think you were lied to again. It is not the kids and it is not Drew and its not Ron Craig. It is in your office and it is a teacher. These problems will be here forever if never addressed. Please address.
DHSAnonymous
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March 10, 2010
outofthewoodwork,

Why would it be so satisfactory for you to know the names of these young girls? It is not any of your business. I believe all of these allegations as I have said before, because I was in his class and he made me very uncomfortable to the point that I had to switch courses. I prefer anonymity for the same reasons these girls do. There is always the threat of retaliation and humiliation. I can see now that I was very fortunate to get away from him. I even avoided him when I saw him in Walmart and still would to this day.

It is because of people like you that nothing gets done about situations like this. I am tired of nothing getting done about these crimes.
TommyTaxPayer
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March 10, 2010
I do believe a person is innocent until proven guilty - accusers have been known to lie. HOWEVER, the administration should have IMMEDIATELY suspended this teacher/coach while an investigation was conducted. To leave this teacher in the school while this issue was being investigated opens the school district up to all kinds of liability issues. That's on the legal front - regarding my children in DISD - the administration FAILED the parents and students miserably by not acting immediately to protect students from a possible child predator.
platinum
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March 10, 2010
no girl is going to make up such thing about that specific teacher. he may not have sexual relations with them, but he is very inappropriate towards certain girls. basically any kind of physical contact other than a handshake and MAYBE a hug is not right for a male teacher to do with a female student. so don't go defending someone when you don't know true and honest facts about the situations!
raydin28
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March 10, 2010
outofthewoodwork....you need to go back to the woods.. its obvious you are a Hudson crusader..what child now or in the past that comes forward would lie and make up these accusations??? Surely you are not that shallow-minded..but I am not so sure. This school district is like the MAFIA..they control everything. This is not over..Hudson the best thing you can do is resign, don't you have that much respect for your wife and children?
outofthewoodwork
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March 10, 2010
Nice to see how our great rag continues on its obvious crusade for sensationalism. But I'm sure it's just a coincidence that another student that obvious has an ax to grind with the teacher comes out without having their name printed. Certainly couldn't be a possibility that the girl flunked driver's education on her own? No chance of that. So now any student that flunked one of his classes can just come out and make a bunch of accusations of this and that. But I'm sure the newspaper will print their anonymous story to keep attracting readers. Keep up the good work.
anon75
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March 10, 2010
You can bet if either one of the girls were the daughters of admin. something would have been done. It is time for Hudson to move on. Hudson I pray for your family and kids. Get some help you need it.
Kimsy
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March 10, 2010
It should make no difference how 'hot' a student looks regardless of her age. She's off limits to a teacher! That's the law or atleast the last time I checked it was. It just obviously isn't enforced at DHS!
Kavo7
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March 10, 2010
It seems that in this town girls are getting a little more..lets say "hotter" at younger ages. i hear this from a lot of guys my age and i have even asked some girls how old they are and i was shocked at the ages i have heard. everything is getting out of hand and it all needs to stop..
carmor
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March 10, 2010
Very sad. Coach, for the good of the school, the best interest of the kids and community, please resign.
dhsalum
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March 10, 2010
As a graduate of DHS, I am sickened by the actions of the administration and how they are dealing with this teacher/predator. All over the country you are seeing more and more cases where these children are being preyed upon by so-called “professionals” that are hired to teach them not touch them. I find it hard to believe that this teacher/coach/predator is allowed to continue to show up for work every day. He should be removed from the school to protect those children he has yet to prey upon. That should have been the first step by the administration. What does this teacher/predator have on the administration to be allowed to stay in his current position? The administration is ruining the outstanding Pride of Durant and they need to step up and take action soon before it is too late. It is simple, hand him the pink slip and pack his bags…move on Coach Hudson, Durant does not need this type of blemish on the school nor the community.
raydin28
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March 10, 2010
How in the world can the administration and the school board of this community live themselves knowing this man is still walking the halls today of Durant High School. You all should be ashamed of yourselves. This story breaks my heart and I fear for the safety of the students within this district. WHAT HAS TO HAPPEN FOR A TEACHER, EDUCATOR TO BE FIRED?
Kimsy
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March 10, 2010
This is getting ridiculous and disgusting to say the least! My daughter is a student at DHS and it sickens me to think that she has to walk the same halls as this pervert! And it appears that both girls went to the Superintendent about the matter and got no results. It's my opinion that he needs to be dealt with as well. Would he handle matters differently if his child were appointed to this man's class????? I've had my own dealings with the faculty at DHS concerning a protective order against another student that was harrassing my daughter and guess what? Absolutely nothing was done! I found this girl holding my daughter in one of the school bathrooms and had to call the authorities myself!!! Where were the teachers, let alone the law enforcement that are paid to be at the school yet you never see them? I've walked through the doors dozens of times and not once have I ever been asked who I am, why I'm there, nothing! The entire school faculty needs an overhaul!
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